As a biracial person, I’ve experienced discrimination from all sides—Black, White, and even other mixed individuals. This unique position gives me a sharp understanding of what it feels like to be unfairly targeted, which is why I relate so deeply to Meghan Markle. Her experience navigating relentless public attacks resonates with my own, especially when those attacks are rooted in misogynoir—the toxic intersection of racism and sexism directed at Black women.
One glaring example of this targeting comes from a self-proclaimed body language expert, Jesús Enrique Rosas, whose platform seems increasingly centered around attacking Meghan Markle. It’s both baffling and disheartening to see a man dedicate his energy to dissecting and criticizing a woman he doesn’t know, all while cloaking his hostility in the guise of “expert analysis.”
The Business of Hate
Hate has, unfortunately, become big business. With nearly half a million subscribers on YouTube, Rosas clearly knows how to capitalize on resentment. His critiques of Meghan go beyond objective analysis, veering into thinly veiled racism and personal attacks. What makes this even more egregious is that he, as a person of color, perpetuates the very systemic biases that harm marginalized communities, including his own.
What did Meghan Markle do to deserve this vitriol? Exist as a beautiful, poised, Black woman who married into royalty. That’s it. She didn’t lobby for power or privilege; she was minding her own business when Prince Harry pursued her. Yet her mere existence seems to trigger deep-seated insecurities and prejudices in people like Rosas.
Misogynoir in Action
It’s not just Rosas. I’ve seen the same visceral reaction from others, including some of my own Christian friends, who recoiled at the news of Meghan and Harry’s relationship. When pressed, they couldn’t articulate why they disliked her—they just did. The truth, whether they admit it or not, lies in their discomfort with seeing a Black woman succeed on a global stage.
This pattern is as old as time: Black women being demonized for breaking through barriers, excelling in spaces that weren’t built for them, and asserting their dignity in the face of systemic oppression. The Duchess of Sussex, like so many Black women before her, embodies grace under fire, but that doesn’t mean the attacks are any less damaging—or any less deserving of our collective condemnation.
Dangerous Rhetoric and Its Implications
Rosas’ attacks go beyond personal bias; they stoke resentment and reinforce harmful stereotypes. When people with platforms use their influence to tear others down, it has a ripple effect. It emboldens others to do the same, normalizing misogynoir and giving cover to prejudice under the guise of critique.
We should be clear: Meghan Markle’s existence as a biracial, Black woman married to a prince is not a crime. The real crimes lie elsewhere—among those who have perpetrated insurrections, enacted policies that separate families, and profited from division. Yet these individuals often escape similar scrutiny, showing how deeply ingrained our societal double standards are.
The Need to Take a Stand
As frustrating as it is to engage with this kind of negativity, we cannot remain silent in the face of injustice. People like Jesús Enrique Rosas perpetuate a cycle of hate and self-loathing that harms everyone, including themselves. Calling out this behavior is not about stooping to their level—it’s about drawing a line in the sand and refusing to accept the normalization of misogynoir.
For anyone who doubts the validity of these critiques, I encourage you to watch Rosas’ videos with a critical eye. His expressions, body language, and tone reveal much about his own biases. But more importantly, reflect on why figures like Meghan Markle elicit such visceral reactions from so many. It’s not about her actions—it’s about what she represents: a challenge to the status quo.
Final Thoughts
We all have a responsibility to dismantle the systems of hate that target Black women. Whether it’s on social media, in our communities, or within ourselves, we must actively resist the forces that seek to dehumanize and divide us. Meghan Markle’s story is a reminder of how far we still have to go, but also of the power of resilience and grace in the face of relentless adversity.
Let’s not let hate win. Let’s stand together, louder and stronger than ever, in support of every Black woman who dares to shine.
